I remember reading an interview years ago with a woman who'd been in porn for a while. She was asked if being a porn performer was degrading or if she felt exploited at all. She replied that the job she had where she felt least valued and most exploited and degraded was a waitress.
I am as direct as a T-Rex with 'roid rage and about as subtle. It isn't intended to cause upset, I just prefer to talk plain. There are plenty of other people here who do the nice, polite thing much better than I can. I'm what you'd call a "problem dinner guest."