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Old 01-02-2010, 06:09 PM
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Originally Posted by StitchwitchD View Post
When I finally manage to get out of this mess, I'm going to only get involved with people who have the same long-term relationship goals as I do, which means that we'll all have to know what our goals are, or at least what we would and wouldn't be okay with.
That's definitely one of the lessons I have learned, too, Stitchwitch. If goals aren't compatible, then eventually it's going to lead to tension which brings in lots of other negative things.
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