Originally Posted by BreatheDeeply
This needs to be blunt. People are giving you really good advice here (not just here but your other threads too). You are at a point in your life however where two things are in conflict:
- the only power you have is the power to change yourself
- only adults understand the above statement
So, in a nutshell, you're a helical trace about an axis on an inclined plane (Big Bang Theorem - sorry, couldn't resist a bit of humor)*
* i.e., you're screwed. Seriously though, you're looking for a fix that doesn't exist.
I meant I don't need the criticism about my posts, I need criticism on my post. Maybe I post things for a reason. To get help, not to be told that me and my lover deserve each other because we are drama. I am asking for criticism on what I am doing wrong within my relationship, not what I am doing wrong on the polyamory website. TOTAL DIFFERENCE