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Old 01-24-2013, 02:10 PM
Tamcat Tamcat is offline
Join Date: Nov 2012
Posts: 24

I would personally say, consider if your life would still be better off in the new state you are moving to if the relationship was not a factor? Given the doubts you are expressing in your post- is it possible you are too carried away with the fantasy of how you want the relationship to be instead of facing the reality of how the relationship will likely go? And will you still be ok if you move and things go south? I think wanting and hoping are wonderful things, but keeping one foot firmly on the ground in reality and making sure you're not completely turning your life upside down for something you're not sure will be what you want and need is also a good thing. So maybe consider what happens if you move and things do not turn out the way you'd hoped? What can you do, plan for, to make sure that you will still be ok regardless?
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