We were apart of a group called Party Club in Missouri. It was a place where anything went. ANd it was really fun and not like a bar where the girl gets hit on every 5 seconds by a creep. We have been trying to find something like that and not have to put out a bunch of adds or join a bunch of swinger sites. We don't want to be apart of that lifestyle. So if ANYONE knows of anything in the state of Kansas please let us know.