Wow. Talk about some high octane drama.
Forcing people into roles they do not naturally fall into is a crushingly destructive idea and will end poorly. The only reasonable thing to do is to let the relationship balance itself out then, if you am so inclined, give it a title based on what it has become.
Originally Posted by Razorbacktat
I have decided to just back off as much as I can
Good call. They are adults, I'm sure they can figure it out and will probably learn more from the situation without your interference.
Oh, and seriously... STOP GOING ON VACATIONS! It's like the kiss of death for your sanity lol