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Old 01-23-2013, 08:44 AM
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Originally Posted by soleilselene View Post
Well a little info first. I'm in an open marriage because my husband won't ha e sex with me. I have permission to find someone that can help me satisfy my needs. Well there is a new coworker at my job. He was incredibly nice to me (it might just be his personality) buy every time I see him he kinda goes out of his way to talk to me. I think he is really cute. Don't know much about him.

Yes I know the best thing would be to start slow and the see what happens. But my question would be, is this a good or bad idea? Mainly becuse we work together. Just wondering if anyone had some experience in something similar. Thanks
Fishing off the company pier is a baaad idea.

I ignored that advice and got into it with a coworker that I still see on a near daily basis. It ended poorly but we still have to tolerate being around each other and its turned into some bad medicine.

I'm usually the first to tell people trying to finger-wag me out of a bad idea to go fuck themselves, I mean the sex with the aforementioned coworker was absolutely world-rocking, but just be ready with a back-up plan if it goes south.

Oh and your co-workers WILL find out. I dont care how good you are at hiding it, they WILL find out. Mine didnt only because the relationship was very short-lived.
I am as direct as a T-Rex with 'roid rage and about as subtle. It isn't intended to cause upset, I just prefer to talk plain. There are plenty of other people here who do the nice, polite thing much better than I can. I'm what you'd call a "problem dinner guest."
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