Originally Posted by ThatGirlInGray
Marcus, I don't know what post you read, because there are SEVERAL Red Flags here:
Oh I agree that the post is riddled with red flags.
I also agree that the relationship sounds poisonous, complete with high octane drama and an apparent absence of adult communication.
I just don't see the OP being somehow a victim here and the guy a "user and abuser". He sounds like he is emotionally immature, but there aren't any characters in that post who aren't emotionally immature.
Independent (Anarchist) Polyamory
IV: my girlfriend / CV: IVs boyfriend of many years / PT: IVs boyfriend, long distance
IV, CV and I live together. None of us have any dependent children