Thanks for the input. I always appreciate getting advice from those that have been in the trenches, so to speak.
W and I are currently researching some poly-friendly counsellors. I am going to work hard at getting the spark back into our relationship. I think we have some issues that most couples have at some point that we can work on. Plus, I think the NRE will soon diminish and W will start putting a little more energy back in our relationship.