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Old 01-22-2013, 07:16 PM
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If this obsession is really so strong as to torpedo relationships then what is the harm in his talking to your boyfriend about it? Maybe a civil conversation where boyfriend gets to explain "I'm flattered that you're in to me, but I am not at all interested. Sorry man, you've got to let that go" to your husband would be helpful.

I did a quick search:
http://www.uncommonhelp.me/articles/...requited-love/

Very often in life we don't get what we want. We need to learn to not let it consume us and damage parts of our life we *can* have.
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