Originally Posted by WhatHappened
Why not just go out first? Coffee. If you both enjoy it, go to a movie. Still having fun? Go to dinner. It doesn't have to go from 0 to 60 in one conversation or one decision.
Sorry, I guess I wasn't specific enough. We've been on a few dates (dinner, movie, etc) and I feel a possibility for something more and I think he may as well.
I'm sure someone would ask, then why not wait for him to ask me? Well, because as he knows the situation with my husband not being 100% okay (but has agreed to let me explore) with me being poly....I'm sure he doesn't want to overstep and make my husband feel uneasy.
I've talked with my husband about this guy (and they've talked a few times in person and online) and right now I feel that he would be okay with me making things "official".
Does that make sense? Like I said, this is very new to me and I don't want to seem stupid.