Just a small little thing to be aware of; asexuality is an identity, like gay or lesbian. Its not something one turns into. Just adding that as an educational piece.
Good luck with your DADT. I haven't known it to work for loving relationships, but you never know... Maybe it will for you. I agree with AM. It sounds to me like you have an open relationship. Your are welcome to be here regardless of how you define yourself though.
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