Well I have been married for 3 years and I love my husband. I have always had a high sex drive and my husband has turned asexual. We have not had sex in a year. This has been very difficult for me and he knows it.
In July he decided to let me have permission and find someone else to satisfy my needs. I have never had casual sex before and I had only had sex with 3 people in my life. This was something new, exciting and scary for me.
My husband had 3 rules, it cannot be anyone he knows, that I always use protection and to never tell him about it. Basically act like there is nothing wrong.
I have no idea is this is considered poly or not. But that is my situation.
I told him that if he believed that having sex with another woman would help our marriage I am all for it. The same rules would apply.