Thought I would throw my 2c in
I am female and identify as straight.
Very happy as the hinge of a V with two guys. More or less I have known both of them since I was a child, I have more trust and faith in them than anyone else. I do not ever see myself opening up to another relationship ... highly unlikely. I see myself as more than lucky to have have found love twice.
Your task is to acknowledge to yourself and others that every part of you has a right to exist.