Originally Posted by soleilselene
Any ideas on how to deal with this?
First and foremost, take a deep breath and realize that your sex drive is not going to kill you, even if it needs to be subdued for a day or two.
If your sex drive is too much for one person, the other people you are involved with do not have any intention of restricting the number of partners you have... take on another lover if that's what you want to do.
Just in case it hadn't occurred to you, what with being monogamous for so long, keep in mind that your life will be easier if you use protection with each partner EVERY time.