I'm a 29 year old, straight, married, female.
Just started having a relationship with my "lover" about 2 weeks ago. Have had permission from my husband since July 2012. The reason for all this is that my husband will NOT have sex with me.
My husband's rules were: it can't be someone he knows, always use protect and DON'T tell him about it, act as if nothing is happening.
I had never had casual sex before, and had only had 3 sex partners. This was very difficult for me to do, but I cannot live without sex.
I'm working on my neediness and hoping this all turns out ok.