I just started this lifestyle this month. I have had sex with my secondary just 2x. He is single and he is a student in college. The main reason for this relationship is that my husband does NOT have sex with me. My husband gave me permission in July and I have just taken advantage of it.
I like my bf and he is good in bed. He is very hippie like and doesn't want a relationship and seems ok with this. What my bf is adamant about no relationships or anything that has expectations tied to it.
I am very needy, I know that, plus I have a very HIGH sex drive. I need more than my bf seems to be able to give me. I don't want to scare him off or make him run away. I have been trying to hold back. But, after a year without sex it has been difficult to hold back.
I text him and he wont answer until a day or two, this really drives me nuts. I don't know if I can handle this. I really just want sex. Should I try to find someone else?
Any ideas on how to deal with this?