Hello from Oxnard as well!
I haven't been on here in a long time, been busy with life and all... but if you're looking for friends in the area, my bf and I would love to meet you both.
We're a bit older.. I'm 31, he's 28. After going back and forth for a few years on poly, I think we're more poly curious. We've both made attempts at exploring relationships with others, but haven't really gone anywhere with it.
We're more or less looking for some like minded friends as none of ours share our views on poly.
Bi-sexual poly female dating J (straight, poly male)