Welcome to our forum.
It seems wise to me that you are giving this a good amount of time for the learning process. Franklin Veux's poly site
is a good place to get educated about the basics and more, and Polyamory.com has many good resources (the Golden Nuggets board
I recommend that you have a look around on our site, read some threads, and see what interests you. You can do searches and tag searches which are sometimes helpful. Then, start posting as thoughts, questions, and concerns come to your mind.
You'll find that there are many people who are willing to offer you feedback and advice. It is a bustling site though, so ping your threads on occasion if you don't get a response right away.
Glad you could join us.