Hello placeofexile,
Welcome to our forum.
We have a
Dating & Friendships subforum; you may find that helpful (if you haven't been there already).
You'll definitely find people here who are sympathetic and understanding towards you. Just explore our various threads a little, see what calls to you, and post any thoughts and questions you may have.
I get the impression you and your partner are kind of in the "thinking about it" stage. Is that accurate?
In any case, I'm glad to welcome you aboard.
Sincerely,
Kevin T.