reassurance and loving acts
I need to read this from time to time and understand that he also needs reassurance, acceptance and empathy for what he is going through. Sometimes it is hard when he raises his voice. I am not used to that but understand that his life feels out of control so he will act out in anger/irritation at times.
I am envious that you guys have communication cuz I can't help H without communication. I guess I will be asking what you guys are going through so I can go back and reassure H maybe make him something special for dinner. That was what I was focusing on these last several weeks was putting extra love into food and fetching for him. ((Hugs Dust and Fish)) Sometimes I give my H an extra long hug and massage his back when he greets me.