I'd be fine talking in trio because then you avoid the triangulation game of "he-said-she-said" type stuff. Nobody can play like they didn't know or did not get the memo. They were THERE.
But if we're going to have a meeting in trio, I want ground rules and an agenda to make sure everyone gets their points on there and gets air time in fair turns. I don't want to attend a filibuster show. YKWIM? Could agreeing to a 2 hour window max and then the same method of conflict resolution
help navigate this talk? Help you feel calmer because you know what to expect going in?
It's good to know your poly people's expectations, wants, needs and limits. Is everyone bringing those
to the table? What are yours?