Originally Posted by RockerChick
... but have many people here been able to move into a successful live-in situation with their lovers? I know that some have; I guess I'm wondering if there's a "norm." Then again, maybe I'm on the wrong forum to find anything "norm," eh?
I'd agree that poly is too varied for anything to be considered the "norm" but there are a number of "cohabitating Vees" that I have read about here. If you do a search on "cohabitation" there is some discussion of the subject. Off the top of my head - Phy lives with her husband and boyfriend (I'd recommend reading her blog, as she journals how it all came about), as does Loving Radiance, as does RedPepper (although she and her boyfriend Mono are going through a rough patch right now), as do I.