New to all of this, I thought I'd pop my head in here, and say hello, ask a few questions if that is okay
I'm 31, and my best friend/now lover has introduced me to this world. It's an interesting one to say the least. Her primary partner is an amazing guy and has been wonderfully supportive and friendly to me as well. Still getting used to that
She lives some hours away from me and other reasons, we're happy it being secondary (although her primary hates that term and we have had lively debates about it over drinks - he simply calls it another relationship ...)
in my life where I live, I'm still very much "single" so to speak - if that's what you call it. I have no primary relationship and this town unfortunately isn't the biggest .. About 50,000 people ? The dating game is bad enough as is. I'm interested how you all go about dates and whatnot and how you break it to potential partners. Before/during this all new changes, I was dating someone quite sweet and innocent but she broke it off for her own other, personal reasons. Doesn't mean it's not going to happen again.
Thanks for listening