Originally Posted by CattivaGattina
Last night Peaseblossum called and since he was going to take a shower asked me to see what was up. When I hung up his phone went back to a text conversation they were having
You weren't intentionally snooping. He told you to answer his phone, the text was visible, this is NOT intentional snooping. My suggestion - fess up to seeing the text, then ask him to explain what's going on. Some people just don't know how to communicate when they are having an issue. My husband can't stand to bring up a problem unless he has already figured out a solution or has thought about it long enough to realize he has no solution, which might be weeks.