In her mind I am Mono, that is how it came out in the breakup and she keeps posting it as such. I wanted to finally correct that as I don't believe I had addressed it before.
She applied her thoughts to a situation which does not exactly mirror ours so insight is hard to glean.
I agree with you, if she wanted to paint it as having issues being a hinge with partners whom didn't have other partners of their own I would understand that completely. I know that was becoming a lot on her.