My Ex has been posting online in comments about the dynamic and issues of Poly/Mono and I finally had enough.
We haven't talked much but I did send her an email saying that labeling me mono in terms of our breakup was not fair as it is not a label I have taken. I stand between the two and haven't accepted either label. I think it is unfair to have first ended the relationship under that pretense that because I was her secondary and had no primary that it automatically made me Mono and would not work. Now if she is going to continue to talk about our past relationship using a label I never took I felt the need to correct her.
Sorry for the short rant