Thread: Poly or not?
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Old 06-10-2009, 04:33 PM
Mark1npt Mark1npt is offline
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RG, sure your relationship wold be easier if you liked him. Your wife's definition of poly does not fit mine, as I want both women living under the same roof with me. To me, I wouldn't feel right having to drive 100 miles or more to see another women. That to me, would feel like I was going out of town to have an affair. Just my own twisted idea, mind you. Your concept likewise doesn't seem amenable to poly, since you can't stand the guy. He also doesn't seem a good candidate for poly since he is openly contemptuous of the relationship you two share at home. This doesn't seem like any more than an open marriage to me, not poly. But, I've also got to give you credit for trying to make it work.
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