When in this new romance did you decide on co primary status ? I assume when you announced this status change with both men that's when the Saturday night date night with hubby was inked in and the issues of time share were hammered out and agreed to.
With being a primary or Co-primary comes the burden and responsibility of handling time splits.
have you or anyone thought to suggest dating on those nights ? Saturday night use to be a natural date night
People here will testify that there's nothing like a hot date to distract you from what someone else is doing.