Welcome to our forum.
Sounds like your poly relationship is in a place of uncertainty at this time. That can be stressful. Savor what you have in the here and now, it sounds like a pretty sweet set-up.
If there's anything we can do on Polyamory.com to help let us know. Have a look at our various boards and threads and see what interests you. It is quite a bustling site and you'll have many opportunities for striking up new friendships.
I hope things work out well for you guys.
Love means never having to say, "Put down that meat cleaver!"