Welcome to our forum.
Hopefully as you look around on our various threads and boards, you will find some of the information that you need. Also, if you have any thoughts, concerns, or questions, don't hesitate to post them.
I hope you have good luck and good love in your endeavors to try for another poly/triad experience. Sounds like the first one was wonderful while it lasted.
Love means never having to say, "Put down that meat cleaver!"