New to This: A Little Nervous
I'm a 30 year old teacher. My wife and I have been together for three years and up to this point have been monogamous. Then, just recently, I'd say about six months ago, my wife came out to me that she's a poly and would like to start an intimate relationship with a fellow she has been working on a project with. We've talked about it extensively and have our boundaries, I think.
Right now, I'm feeling kind of adrift here. She is out and about, but seems completely uninterested in engaging in couples activities. So I'm feeling on my own. Well, me and our cats.
"Stories are the only enchantment possible,
for when we begin to see our suffering as a story,
we are saved."
— Anaïs Nin