I tried that Mr. Right.
The bottom line is that she made it impossible for me to participate and retain any semblance of sanity-because I refuse to participate in the ongoing badmouthing.
SO I deleted my fb group, quit the meet up group and am limiting my poly-socializing to here and the few friends I have made that aren't at all involved with her.
As much as I would like to support the community as a whole; I have more important things to do (like school) than fight against her harassment and stalking.
"Love As Thou Wilt"