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Old 01-01-2010, 04:31 PM
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Originally Posted by ladyjools View Post
By the end of the phone calls she seemed a lot more relaxed, and even passed on new years wishes to R who she knew was also at home with me, that is BIG step for my Mum.
Sometimes all we can do is to continue calmly to explain how we feel. If they are in the least bit open or empathic they will eventually realise that you are happy and content and that it's not bad for you.

There are some who will never see that, but then I'm not sure that any words or actions would help....

So for what it's worth, I definitely feel like you are doing the right things, here.
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