friends stepping over bounds...
So here's the deal, the girlfriend (genebean) has a friend of whom which is attracted to her . Or perhaps more acurately, has feelings for her. That I'm fine with. The issue I'm upset with is the fact that this woman is very much a lesbian, and is a firm believer that you can only love one person. Actually, I'm even ok with that. It's the fact that she is trying to convince genebean that she is a lesbian. She doesn't believe that bi sexuals really exist. She think being bi is a phase, and that genebean is really a lesbian.
Needless to say, I think there might be a few people here who disagree. Just the other day, this friend said, "if you and penguin (me) break up, I think you should try a lesbian relationship. Does that seem a little like stepping over bounds? I'm kind of upset about it, because it seems that way to me. Please let me know what you think.