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Old 01-14-2013, 01:00 AM
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I just received a PM from the OP. He said he is building a poly family and wants to know me. Obviously he has never read any of my posts about what I want in my relationships -- I'm def not interested in being part of a poly family! Furthermore, he's in France, and I'm in NYC. Then I noticed this thread. Ugh, I don't know how anyone would be interested if he's got a rule that they must always provide sex. I'm nobody's sex toy. If he said that to my face, I'd spit in his eye.
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