Originally Posted by SchrodingersCat
Whaaat? How does him not being interested in sex or physical contact amount to abuse??
I was using abuse in the same context I quoted it - and my point was not to argue abuse, but to suggest that vastly different standards were being applied to behavior.
I thought my point was pretty clear that SweetSensations shouldn't feel abusive to her husband - my apologies if that didn't come through.