I'd have to agree with that.
In my experience, the b.s. of a partner impacts more than just partners. It impacts kids and extended family too. So even in monogamy-it's a cascade effect.
That said-I do understand what you mean because problems with Maca equate to GG and I having less time together, spending more of it dealing with the fallout etc. Which in turn sometimes results in problems between GG and I.
I get tired of feeling guilty for the b.s. between Maca and I turning this other relationship upside down etc.
Hugs. I hope you are remembering to go take a walk or paint or just spend time quietly alone still.
"Love As Thou Wilt"