I don't have any advice really, I always find myself scratching my head at the sexual/asexual monogamous relationship. For one sex is clearly going to be a need at some point, for the other it is not a concern. I think sealing this type relationship in the monogamy model is setting the countdown to the end of the relationship. As a sexual person I could not imagine not being able to express myself that way and to have the pleasure and sense of well-being that sex brings.
Is there any compromise from your partner on that issue? Or is he simply not interested?
Married to: VioletLight
Last edited by polychronopolous; 01-11-2013 at 12:59 AM.