*waves* Hello Neighbor!
Sunny, yes, but COLD! I want my mid-60's temperatures back! (Yes, I know, I'm a wimp and would never survive winters in other parts of the country.)
Good luck as you move forward with the new information you're getting. My husband and I also got together at 19/20, I was also his first girlfriend, but luckily for us we were able to start talking about the possibilities of non-monogamy from the very beginning of our relationship.
So welcome, and feel free to PM me if you want!
Pan Female, Hinge in a V between my mono (straight) husband, Monochrome and my poly (pan) partner, ThatGuyInBlack