I was still editing, sorry.
I figured you were not actually being asinine -- it was more like one of those " journal musing things." I get that.
But it resonated with me as one of those "Shiny Thought" exercises. So I responded. I may steal it for my OWN journal thread now! I dig Shinies.
at this time = closed married polyship of 2 with DH.
Chronic patient = fuzzy brain at times. (If I make no sense in a post, just PM me and I'll happily try to clarify it later.)