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Old 01-08-2013, 03:06 PM
riftara riftara is offline
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i think the real issue here, from your post, IF I understand things correctly, is about rules and you feelign comfortable acting on your wants/needs and having hubby be ok with it.

I think GG is right, it's time to re-evaluate your rules.

Leave M out of it, and re-negotiate your parameters, then, after that is done, you can safely pursue M with an established set of rules that maybe more conducive.

When you do that, you have to express your desires and stand up for what you want.
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