There're lots of great posts on this forum, and many people have been through so many problems, and navigated them publicly, that you can find something for just about any situation you should find yourselves in.
If you do have any specific questions in the future, feel free to start a new thread that addresses them specifically. That's usually the best way to get something seen from a fresh POV.
“As I am sure any cat owner will be able to tell you,
someone else putting you in a box is entirely different
from getting into a box yourself.” —bisexualbaker