Sorry about that SnC. It happens sometimes that people post without realizing how their "voice" can be perceived in an environment with no tone or body language. Unfortunately we the readers can't KNOW how a writer intended something to be read in every case.
Usually miscommunications can be resolved, since I think we all do it once in a while, but unfortunately there are also those who are either unable or unwilling to take the time to try to read their words as a stranger might, who insist that the reader is "wrong" because "that's not what I meant", and therefore seem to do it more often. I think this forum is better than many, though, because most people do seem to be trying their best most of the time.
Again, sorry that was your first experience here.
Pan Female, Hinge in a V between my mono (straight) husband, Monochrome and my poly (pan) partner, ThatGuyInBlack