Originally Posted by lolalondon
Apologies SJJ, I was referring to what you wrote in the beginning:
"One day, he was texting her in the wide open - not really trying to hide anything..."
And sorry if I was being harsh, was just trying to balance what others on the forum were saying because I felt it was a bit one-sided, but re-reading my messages I realise I might have been heavy handed in what is clearly a delicate and complex situation. I hope things work out for the best x
It is more than okay. I didn't post here just to be told how right I was on everything. I appreciate all views and they help me focus. I am mostly a very together person that doesn't outwardly show distress. This makes me feel weak.