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Old 01-05-2013, 10:09 PM
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Anneintherain Anneintherain is offline
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I for one think you are doing very well with these changes and challenges all things considered, I'm guessing personally I would've cut and run from Mono a few months ago, as the idea of a partner cheating (whether it be physically, or being open to it) is the most terrifying thing for me. However it works out for you, I think it takes strength to not jump to rash decisions, and to take the time to make the decisions that are right for you.

I don't envy the position you are in. I think it's a very interesting mental shift you've decided to try to make mentally from "family" to solo poly - one that doesn't have to mean anything in practice, but obviously can have both pros and cons emotionally. I'll keep my fingers crossed that it's mostly pros for you.
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