Originally Posted by Phy
I mean looks, gestures and such
What he says or does, that he can control and modify, but facial expressions, gestures... He can no more control that than the color of his eyes or what his face does when he's asleep. It's hereditary and instinctive (I saw it in my kids when they were still babies).
Learning how to ask for space (and learning how to grant it) is a good thing. Took years before my husband would accept my need for space to calm down, that was after I finally figured out that's what I needed for the rage to die so I could be rational again. Good luck, I know you guys will find some solutions.