Thanks for your responses everyone. Labels can be confusing and seemingly unnecessary but I've found for places like these (forums, online, what-have-you) they can be useful to very quickly describe one's mindset. Also I feel that trying to categorize one's behaviors can help you unveil more about yourself and your needs & wants.
Opalescent - Your description of fluidity of genders mirrors my sentiments. Thanks for your input, it has helped.
Lovingradiance - Thanks for the extra clarification. It can be confusing trying to learn the correct uses of so many new terms. The extra info was very useful.
Jane - I do like the term brother husbands! Haha