Originally Posted by JaneQSmythe
Once I accepted that what Dude and I were developing was "real" (i.e. significant, not just a sexual connection) I panicked. If this continued into a "full-fledged" relationship, what were the implications for my relationship with my husband? Was I somehow "preventing" Dude from pursuing a "real girl" for himself? Was I just being greedy?
Is it more unlikely with three than with two? I have to think it is (statistically speaking). Is it impossible? I have to believe that it isn't. (Rare? Sure. Impossible? No. Worth the effort? Only the individuals involved can answer.)
You are not alone.
I really really appreciate you taking the time to respond to my post. You've mirrored some of my sentiments to a tee. I can't wait until I have some spare time to read your blog- I'm sure it will be very enlightening.