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Old 01-03-2013, 06:26 PM
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Well, this is not the type of suggestion you're looking for, but if I were you, I'd look into adoption and start handling or clearing up whatever issues you think might stand in the way of that. There are so many children who need good homes. Get that rolling, be as informed as possible, as it is time-consuming, while you investigate surrogacy (but wouldn't the issues you have make surrogacy just difficult as adoption?), which will also likely take a while to find someone. That way, if a surrogate falls through, you still have adoption as an option.
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